If You Can't Get a Job Today, Is It Really Your Fault?

A viral essay making the rounds right now tells new grads: "If you can't get a job, it's YOUR fault." 😳

After reading it over, I think it's half right and half completely bonkers.

Here's what rings true to me:

It's true that grads can't just rest on their laurels anymore (if they ever could!).

After all, employers no longer just want to see your GPA - they want to see what you actually BUILT. An app. A Substack. A Discord bot. A dinner series. Anything you shipped that nobody assigned you.

And the rarest skill in 2026 is the simplest one: doing what you said you'd do. ✅

But here's the dangerous half:

Telling a struggling 22-year-old "it's YOUR fault" isn't tough love.

It's just cruel.

A whole generation was handed a playbook - check the boxes, get the seat - and the deal expired before they could cash it in.

That's not a character flaw. It's a system that changed the rules mid-game.

So let's drop the blame and keep the lesson:

❌ STOP optimizing for a credential that stopped screening years ago.

✅ START building one small thing that proves you can learn, finish, and follow through.

Anyway, that's my $.02. But I'd love to hear your take in the Comments! 🙌